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CHURCH NEWS,  APRIL, 2009

CHURCH NEWS CONTENTS

Pastor's Study
April Worship Schedule
Parish Health Ministry
Outreach
Congregational Life
RCWM
Seminarian Update
JOY
Display Showcase
Children, Youth, and Education
Kermit!
Stephen Ministry
Thank You's and Notes
November Calendar

From the Pastor's Study....

Dear Church family,

            We are in the middle of Lent, getting ready for the events of Holy Week. Our theme for this Lent
is "Walking to.........Walking with..........Walking through". As we journey through Holy Week, we walk to
Jerusalem with Jesus, we walk with him in his last days before his death on the cross at Calvary, and we walk
together through his suffering to the glory of Easter morning.  We all know the promise and joy that comes to
us as Christians because of that first Easter morning.  Please join us for worship this special time of the year.

            I would like highlight some church happenings this past month:

- Many of you have asked for copies of our 2009 spending plan. Copies are now available in the Gathering
Area, or you may call the church office and have a copy mailed to you.
-The consistory of NHRC held a weekend-long retreat early in March. The title of the retreat was "Playing
a Bigger Game". What does a 'bigger game" look like for our church? One of the common themes of the
weekend was "Connections" -- making connections with God, with each other, and with the larger community.
More discussions will be held, and the whole congregation will have an opportunity to hear more. The date will
be determined.
-Thank you to all who supported our "Sunday with Daffodils." 85 bouquets, and 85 plants of daffodils graced
our sanctuary on Sunday, March 15th. We raised close to $1880 for the American Cancer Society.
-During Holy Week this year, we will have an opportunity to walk our Circle of Life Labyrinth before and after
our Maundy Thursday and Good Friday services. (Weather permitting). There will be more information in your
morning bulletin.
-Below is our April Worship Schedule.......See you in worship

In Christ's Service,
Rev. Keith W. Tamlyn, Pastor
 

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April 2009 WORSHIP SCHEDULE

April       9:15 and 11:00 Sunday Services
   5          Palm Sunday/Communion
                        Mark 11:1-11    “Walking With....”
   9          Maundy Thursday        8:00 p.m.           Communion
 10          Good Friday                8:00 p.m.           Service of Tenebrae (Darkness)
 12          Easter    Sunrise Service 6:30 a.m./Breakfast 7:15 a.m. (Sign up in Gathering Area)
                        Mark 16:1-8      “Walking Through....”
 19          Worship        -             Elder Harold Oakhill

 26          Worship/Baptism       
                        Luke 24:36-48               “Resurrection Fear”


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Parish Health Ministry

Mary Lou Grott, R.N., Parish Nurse, 462-0810, Ext 105, Tues., Wed., Thurs.

STRESS....
 
We all need a certain amount of stress in this life to function at our best, but when the
balance tips toward prolonged stress, it can take a terrible toll on our minds, bodies,
and spirits over time.

Physical Symptoms of Stress
·    sleep problems; chronic fatigue; lack of energy or stamina
·    anxiety or depression; unexplained crying
·    shaking or trembling; dizziness
·    difficulty concentrating; nervousness; restlessness
·    heart palpitations; chest pain; headaches; difficulty breathing; upper and lower back pain; stomach problems
·    lack of interest in sex (if you are in a relationship)
·    decrease or increase in appetite and eating, with accompanying weight loss or gain

If any of the above symptoms are a regular feature of your life, and other possible physical causes
have already been ruled out, consult your physician and begin to take steps to manage and eventually
eliminate unhealthy sources of stress in your life. Consider joining us for the following supper program
on Friday evening, April 24th, with our own Corrie Blasi, M.S.W., as facilitator, to learn more about
stress and how to manage it...it could be the first step to improve and change your life!

RELAX !!! STRESS MANAGEMENT COMING SOON !!!

Just in time for summer practicing:
Learn Mindfulness, Distress Tolerance and Emotion Regulation techniques.
Practice this summer and Manage Stress the rest of the year.
The Wellness Committee is offering a short course on research proven techniques
to reduce stress and live a more effective life.
SUPPER PROGRAM –– FRIDAY, APRIL 24TH @ 6:00 PM – SIGN UP SOON!!


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OUTREACH

Due to the overwhelming support we have received for our Food Pantry Drive program, we
have decided to keep it going.  The boxes will continue to be located in the Gathering Area
and the Education Center hall.  The Food Pantries at The First Reformed Church of Fishkill
and the Zion Episcopal are very excited with the outpouring of food.  In your visits to the grocery
store, if you can, pick up a can or box of something and drop it off.  For questions, please
contact Nancy Cooper at 463-4778.

ON-GOING Projects.... 


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CONGREGATIONAL LIFE

PROPERTY COMMITTEE

SPRING CLEAN-UP DAY
 
The Property Committee has scheduled Saturday, April 4th as NHRC Spring Clean-up Day.  (Rain date, April 11) We will start at 8:30 a.m., but feel free to come when you can and leave when you have to.  Come prepared to do some raking, pick up fallen branches, turn over some flower bed dirt, move benches, pull out snow plow marker stakes, maybe wash some windows, and other similar jobs.

Coffee and light refreshments will be available.
 
Questions?  Please contact Frank Darrow (297-8307) or Jerry Carey (227-5097).


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R.C.W.M.


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Seminarian Update
 
Longevity.........
 
Several years ago, Dinner for Eight (or less in number) groups were formed. Groups of eight or
less got together and one family would host the event and the entree and the other families brought
appetizer, dessert, etc. Carol DeWoody organized all the groups. The groups would meet 3-4x a year.
 
A big thanks to Carol for organizing and coordinating these groups and " hosting" the idea of many years ago.

My husband, Keith, and I joined a group tha,t instead of hosting the meal within the home,  went
outside the home to local restaurants.

Keith is now in heaven but our group has continued over the last 4-5 years. I think we are the longest
surviving NHRC dinner group and the only one who ventured outside the home.

I thank God my dinner group has continued to allow me to a part of the dining experience and has
continued to be a source of strength and fellowship to me.  We have experienced many different types of
food and restaurants, both ethnically and culturally. It has enlightened our culinary taste buds!

My group consists of Jim and Carol Ray, Joe and Sally Allen, and Walt and Barbara Weikel.
Speak with any of us, and will we share our group experiences with you. In the meantime, you may want
to form a group on your own either to dine within your home or outside your home. We have built a
strong Christian community together over the "breaking of bread".

It builds community amongst us.....Our Lord was always building community over a meal or two.
Community builds faith and faith builds hope in a Christian community!
 
Breaking bread together,
Jan Fritzinger

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JOY

JOY Spring Excursion....
           
Wednesday, April 22....
 
Join us for lunch and a tour of the Purple Heart Hall of Honor in New Windsor.  We will meet in the
church parking lot at 10:30 a.m., and leave at 10:45 a.m.  Lunch will be at Johnny D’s, and will include
a choice of 1 of 4 sandwiches, fries, salad and soup bar, and dessert bar for $12.00 including tax and
tip.  We will leave there at 1:00 p.m. and go to the Hall where we will have an escorted tour at a cost
of $3.00 per person.  The Hall preserves the compelling stories of the sacrifice of those who have been
awarded the Purple Heart medal.  It includes the history of the Purple Heart medal, an electronic Roll
of Honor, featuring the names of Purple Heart recipients, and galleries that provide a first-hand experience
that cannot be conveyed in history books.  Anyone who may need financial assistance to attend this or
any other JOY event, please confidentially contact either Pastor Tamlyn or Mary Lou Grott, Parish Nurse. 
Please sign up in the Gathering Area and join us for this informative afternoon.  Questions????  Please Call
Peggy Buono, 471-9548 or Nancy Burger, 463-2283.

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CHILDREN, YOUTH, and EDUCATION

Sue Kimmerle, Christian Education Director, ext. 104
Christian Education....  Sue Kimmerle, Director, 462-0810, ext. 104

Sunday School Lenten Mission - Children helping children through change - Cassandra is 7 years
old. She loves to play with Barbie, ride her bike and go swimming. Jose is 14 years old. When he
is not helping his mom with his younger brothers and sisters, he loves to eat pizza, skateboard and
play video games with his friends. Cassandra and Jose are exactly like all children, except for one
thing, they are homeless. They live in a homeless shelter in our neighborhood. This year's Sunday
School Lenten mission project invites our children to collect coins to help fund summer activities for
Cassandra, Jose and upwards of 100 other homeless children living right here in our community. The
Sunday School children have received change banks that they will present on Palm Sunday,
April 5, 2009. We would like to invite the whole congregation to connect with our Sunday School
program in this worthwhile endeavor. If you have a jar, bottle or pocketful of change that you would
like to offer to this cause, you are welcome to leave it with myself or Bill Hawlk at the education desk
any Sunday morning, all shapes and sizes of containers accepted! Any way you can help our children
help other children through change is so appreciated!

VBS - Save the dates! - This year's Vacation Bible School, Crocodile Dock, where fearless kids
shine God's light, will be held August 3 - 7, 2009. More to follow!!

THE SCHOOL FOR CHRISTIAN LIVING AND SERVING

A Ministry of the Reformed Church in America, Classis of Mid-Hudson and Orange, the School for
Christian Living and Serving serves the churches in lower Hudson Valley.  The mission of the School
is to fulfill Christ’s command to “make disciples of all nations.”  We endeavor to offer training for adults
that will deepen their faith and equip them to use the gifts God has given them for ministry within
Christ’s Church.

The school was established in 1994 and has grown steadily since by offering a consistent slate of
courses.  At the same time, the school has remained flexible with a spiritual ear sensitively tuned to the
clergy, laity, and ever-changing needs of congregations throughout the area.  This has resulted in an
ever-broadening range of Christian education courses offered for the serious student and also for those
people simply seeking additional knowledge on a particular Christian subject.

The School for Christian Living and Serving is open and available to Christians of all denominations. 
There are no academic prerequisites except for those student on a study track to become Preaching
Elders.  The school offers several learning opportunities for adults each fall and during the winter/spring. 
There are courses for Personal Growth, Christian Education to meet the needs of people leading and
teaching Christian Education, Consistory Training, Personal Spiritual Development, Leadership
Development, in addition to General Interest courses.  We are pleased to announce this spring’s course
offerings and invite you to prayerfully consider joining others who are seeking to grow in their faith.

Please take time to review this spring’s courses listed on the inside back cover of this Church News and
stop by the Information Center in the Gathering Area for full course descriptions and additional
registration information.

New Hackensack Nursery School.....
          
OPEN HOUSE     -       SATURDAY, APRIL 18, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
 
Parents AND children are invited to explore the classrooms and meet our teachers!  Registrars will be
on hand to answer questions and accept applications for 2009 - 2010.  Please enter the building from
the back parking lot.  For information, call the registrars at 462-0810.  Three’s class: ext. 182; four’s
class: ext. 183.

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Greetings from Kermit!

I know for sure that spring is almost here, because just a few days ago I saw one of my froggy
friends hopping across the road toward the pond.  (I don’t think he looked both ways first, but I
know he made it safely, because I heard him splash into the pond.)  I’m afraid it’s still too cold
for me, though. I guess that’s what I get for spending so much time with you humans!

The Wednesday Morning Workshops for April will be on the 1st, 15th, 22nd and 29th, in
Room 15 at 9:30 a.m.  (There’s no meeting on April 8th, because that is Spring Vacation time!!) 
There are many projects underway and ready to go, so there’s sure to be something for YOU!!
Please join in.

The date for Take Home Kits has been changed to Mother’s Day, Sunday, May 10th.  There will be
lots of crafty kits available for you to work on.  The kits are due back just before this year’s Bazaar,
so you’ll have plenty of time to finish them!  We need EVERYONE to stop by after either service,
and pick up a kit (or maybe two!!)

Mrs. Ray (my nice human friend who is almost as happy as this frog to see spring coming) reminds
me that we can use YOUR help to make sure we have a nice variety of kits available.  Please consider
becoming a Kit Designer.  Each designer takes a craft idea, makes a sample of that craft, writes the
directions, and assembles all the materials needed to make more of that craft.  Call Carol Ray (297-4830)
if YOU would like to help in this way. She has lots and LOTS of ideas and catalogs to help you get
started.  Also, Carol is always on the lookout for easy craft ideas for the Wednesday Morning Workshop
folks to make.

Piggy Bank Bazaar is happy to encourage the church’s young humans to go to an overnight church
sponsored camp like Camp Warwick or Camp Fowler during the summer.  We give what we call
“Camperships” to every child who is going to camp.  Let the church office know if your child is going
to camp this summer.

With so many supplies being used for the Take-Home Kits, Piggy’s Cupboard has room for more
supplies. We can especially use felt, polyester stuffing, pom-poms, basket grass like Easter grass, small
and medium size-baskets, containers for gift baskets, gifts for gift baskets, craft wire, floral foam, floral
mosses, vases, containers that can be used for flower arrangements, hot glue sticks, small frames for
cross stitch, Velcro, mugs, bells, paint brushes, yardsticks, rulers, new nails, screws, washers, hooks
and such (we just got a nice donation of nails, etc., but we could use more) and other craft supplies. 
The Piggy Bank folks enjoy creating gifts from all the supplies that are in the cupboard!  
            
I think I’ll go and dip a flipper in the pond now, just to see if it’s getting warm enough to take a quick
swim. I’ll be hopping by Room 15 on Wednesday though, and I hope to see YOU there!
 
Yours in Love,
Kermit


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STEPHEN MINISTRY

Stephen Ministry Letter of Appreciation
 
My experience as a Care Receiver of the Stephen Ministry program here at New Hackensack
Reformed Church was one I’ll always cherish and remember. It didn’t start out that way however!
 
I was, I thought, open to this ministry when it was explained to me and was eager to begin. Something
changed after I began...I was, I know now, fighting internally against it. I thought this wasn’t for me. I felt
I couldn’t afford the time, it wasn’t for me, I didn’t need or deserve it. I also felt I could “go it on my
own.” How wrong I was on all of it.
 
What I learned was that I am worth it! God loves us all and we need to feel it especially when our lives
are hard for whatever reason. God is the closest then. There’s no reason to “go it alone.”
 
There is power and strength in talking your feelings out and having someone to share your concerns,
fears, and deepest feelings. A Stephen Minister was there for me. I’m stronger from this experience,
knowing that God is ever close and with me each day through my journey...whatever it may be.   

(Anonymous Church Member)

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Thank You's and Notes

THANK YOU....The Fishkill Food Pantry would like to thank the NHRC congregation for your
generous donation to the pantry.  As you might imagine, the members of families needing our assistance
has increased dramatically.  Without the help of the community we could never achieve what we’ve been
called upon to do.  We appreciate your help very much.  If you wish to tour the pantry, we’re open
9-12, Monday - Friday.


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For more details, see the flyers at our Information Center.


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APRIL CALENDAR

1, Wednesday
 6:45 a.m.                Men’s Christ_Care
 9:30 a.m.                Piggy Bank Workshop
 7:00 p.m.                Stephen’s Ministry Supervision
                          Boy Scout Troop 56
2, Thursday
 9:30 a.m.                Bible Study at the Hoyt’s
 4:45 p .m.               Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                CIA Youth Study at the Meaney’s
 7:15 p.m.                Senior Choir

3, Friday
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise

5, Sunday                 PALM SUNDAY/ COMMUNION
 9:15 a.m.                Worship/Children’s Message
11:00 a.m.                Worship/Children’s Message
 5:15 p.m.                Confirmation Class

6, Monday
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 5:30 p.m.                Beginning Bells
 6:00 p.m.                Klokken Ringers
 8:00 p.m.                Campanola Ringers

7, Tuesday
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                Councils/Committees

8, Wednesday
 6:45 a.m.                Men’s Christ_Care
 9:30 a.m.                Piggy Bank Workshop
 7:00 p.m.                Boy Scout Troop 56

9, Thursday               MAUNDY THURSDAY
 9:30 a.m.                Bible Study at the Hoyt’s
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                CIA Youth Study at the Meaney’s
 7:15 p.m.                Senior Choir
 8:00 p.m.                Maundy Thursday Service

10, Friday                GOOD FRIDAY
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 8:00 p.m.                Good Friday Tenebrae Service
 
12, Sunday                EASTER
 6:30 a.m.                Sunrise Service
 7:15 a.m.                Sunrise Breakfast
 9:15 a.m.                Worship/Children’s Message
11:00 a.m.                Worship/Children’s Message

13, Monday                Easter Monday/Office Closed

14, Tuesday         
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise

15, Wednesday
 6:45 a.m.                Men’s Christ_Care
 9:30 a.m.                Piggy Bank Workshop
 7:00 p.m.                Stephen Ministry Supervision
                          Boy Scout Troop 56
 7:30 p.m.                Nursery School Board

16, Thursday
 9:30 a.m.                Bible Study at the Hoyt’s
10:00 a.m.                Wellness Committee
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                CIA Youth at the Meaney’s
 7:15 p.m.                Senior Choir

17, Friday
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 3:30 p.m.                May News Deadline

18, Saturday
10:00 a.m.                New Hackensack Nursery School Open House

19, Sunday

 8:00 a.m.                Adult Sunday School
 9:15 a.m.                Worship/Sunday School
                                Jr. and Sr. High
10:30 a.m.                Cherub/Celebration Choir
11:00 a.m.                Worship
 5:15 p.m.                Confirmation Class
 6:30 p.m.                Youth Group

20, Monday
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 5:30 p.m.                Beginning Bells
 6:00 p.m.                Klokken Ringers
 7:00 p.m.                Birthday Dessert Hostesses
 8:00 p.m.                Campanola Ringers

21, Tuesday
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 
22, Wednesday
 6:45 a.m.                Men’s Christ_Care
 9:30 a.m.                Piggy Bank Workshop
10:30 a.m.                JOY Trip and Luncheon
 7:00 p.m.                Boy Scout Troop 56

23, Thursday
 9:30 a.m.                Bible Study at the Hoyt’s
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                CIA Youth Study at the Meaney’s
 7:15 p.m.                Senior Choir

24, Friday
 9:30 a.m.                Collate May News
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 6:00 p.m.                Wellness Stress Program/Dinner

26, Sunday           
 8:00 a.m.                Adult Sunday School
 9:15 a.m.                Worship/Sunday School
                                Jr. and Sr. High
10:00 a.m.                Blood Pressure Screening
10:30 a.m.                Celebration Choir
11:00 a.m.                Worship
 5:15 p.m.                Confirmation Class
 8:30 p.m.                Dutchess Outreach Shelter

27, Monday
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 5:30 p.m.                Beginning Bells
 6:00 p.m.                Klokken Ringers
 8:00 p.m.                Campanola Ringers

28, Tuesday
10:30 a.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                Consistory Meeting

29, Wednesday
 6:45 a.m.                Men’s Christ_Care
 9:30 a.m.                Piggy Bank Workshop
 7:00 p.m                 Boy Scout Troop 56

30, Thursday
10:30 a.m.                Bible Study at the Hoyt’s
 4:45 p.m.                Strength and Balance Exercise
 7:00 p.m.                CIA Youth Study at the Meaney’s
 7:15 p.m.                Senior Choir
 

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